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[sneham]

இளம் விதவைகள் மறுமணம் குறித்து தங்களின் நிலைப்பாடு என்ன?? கருத்துக்களை எதிர்பார்க்கிறேன்...

[VISHNU ROCKY77]

aanaga irunthalum.........pennaga irunthalum ...........oru murai than thirumam
ithuve enthan nargunam

[Sudhar GHillli]

ilamvayadhulaiye..vidhavai aaguradhu,..aavangaa kailaa illa...adhu kadavul seira....vidhi....adhukaaga...avangaa vazhkaaa muzhukaaa...kashtathoda yar thonaiyodaiyum illamaa irkuradhu..rombaa kashtam..adhu oru naragaa vazhka...adhum ippa irukaaa..ulagathulaa..oru ponne.kee paadhukaapu illadhapodhu..oru vidhaviku matuum eppadi paadhukaapu irkum..she vil fave...mental stress..physical harass..frm her surrounding...adhukaaka..avalaa vale paathukaakavumm..kuzhanda....laaan..valarakaa ellorkum aasa irkum adhukaagavadhu...thanna nalla paathukuraa purinjikuraaa...thanna nalla vechu kaapathuraa..madri aana..paiyaaan irundaa..kandipaaaa avanga marumanam senjukalaam thappe illa...vivakarathu eppa thappu illanu vandurucho...appa marumanamum thappu illa dhaaan...adhum kuripaaa....ilam.vidavai pengaluku...!!!

[annamalaiar]

இளம் விதவைகள் மறுமணம் குறித்து தங்களின் நிலைப்பாடு என்ன?? கருத்துக்களை எதிர்பார்க்கிறேன்...

Decision on the Remarriage should be left to the young widow .
we can not put up obstacles to her remarriage so also we should not force her for a remarriage.
But we have to support the concept of remarriage
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விதவைகள் மறுமணம் என்பது பெண்களின் பிறப்புரிமை,
அந்த உரிமையை அவர்கள் எடுத்து கொள்ள அவர்களுக்கு இந்த சமுகம் யாசகம் என நினைத்து விடக்கூடாது .
இந்த உரிமை விதவைகளுக்கு மட்டுமல்ல, பொறுப்பில்லா ஆண்களால் கைவிடப்படும் அனைத்து பெண்களுக்கும் இந்த உரிமை உண்டு ,
சமுகம் அதனை ஆதரிக்க வேண்டும்

[BH@R@THI]

I DON'T LIKE RE-MARRYING...
BUT NOBODY SHOULD BE FORCED TO TAKE ANY DECISION....
IT DEPENDS UPON INDIVIDUALS' DECISION....

[shebby]

nice share la sneham but wat is this poll about la konjam translate in english la so im can give mycommetns la hahahla

[BH@R@THI]

nice share la sneham but wat is this poll about la konjam translate in english la so im can give mycommetns la hahahla

DO YOU ENCOURAGE THE REMARRY OF WIDOW OR NOT?
THAT'S THE THEME LA....
U GOT IT LA?

[ELAVARASANSIVA]

Re-Marriage should be appreciated,,,Let it be in the decision of the individual,,,

[~~Diva~~]

its every girl or guy's life so they have 2 decide ...but frankly i don believe in re-marrying...still ididnt see a couple happy by remarried....so its upon individual wish...but i appreciate re-marriage

[Akshika]

Though it's contrary to our Hindu traditional pattern, that has developed over the generations, in my point of view, if it brings back the joyful life the widow or the widower has lost, it will be of greater importance to engage them in a second relationship via the re-marriage.

The prominent reluctancy of the women to choose the second partner, is sometimes used as a supportive factor, by the unruly men, to hold them culpable for the failed marriage life.

In the recent days, where women have emancipated from their traditional roles mostly, remarriage may be perhaps a way to make light of a meaningful life.

[Disavowed]

This s a hypothetical question... If v were n the period wer widow marriage was prohibited and sati was implemented, then surely tis question has a valid reasoning but now, it depends on the female who s a widow and on the male who wishes to giveher a new life and keeps her happy... But to the controversy, the public[relations, neighbours, friends nd well wishers] wont praise this deed f the girl getting re-married and she has to face a lot f disgrace....


And finally ending wid its their own will and wish, i do support it....

[lanshan75]

I have been annoyed by this problem for a long time,so thank you for your post, it is really useful for me.

[sneham]

I have been annoyed by this problem for a long time,so thank you for your post, it is really useful for me.

Thanx.......



Thanx to all