Ten ways on how to cope with the pain of rejection.

When rejected in love the pain may be awful but one has to get over it because life goes on.


Acknowledge reality- accept but do not dwell on shame or embarrassment.

Accept that it is over.

Surround yourself with people who care and remind yourself that you are loved.

Believe that you can go on.

Decide that neither of you are at fault but both of you are responsible. Don't point the finger at either yourself or your ex for what each of you did wrong.

Do not wallow in self-pity. Instead keep busy with exercise or projects.

Allow yourself to experience the anger but don't overdo it.

Don't become bitter.

If you are feeling really bad, focus on something that makes you happy and change your mood.

Get your life back together. Go out with friends and meet new people

nice when we read....
but is it practical...

Easy to read.. Not that much easy when it comes to us...

good
y it isn't easy karthik
is it ur situation ???

Hey heera..

U kno what.. I will not stick with one ..so not a problem.. afterall life is like an exam.. shud take it as Better luck next time... one more thing.. easiest thig in the world is to form 10 points like those.. the toughest would be following atleast one of them.. Autograph film Parthiya..? thats what life is...

nice one

mr.karthik,
inta society irukkei, men ku ettana autograph iruntaalum ataan life & practical appadi vanga
itei oru woman inta maatiri panni paakatum, ungalukku pooriyuta aana oru girl aagiya naan, enakku pooriyum
society ya poruta varaikum oru pen ku oru murai love failure aayita avalukku life ei failure aana maatiri
what next, u said life is like an exam
life um seri love um seri exam maatiri pass or fail paakuratu kidayatu
enna porutta varaikum ungalukku love kaana corect definition teriyatu perhaps i don't too
but i don't have a such a cheap idea about love.
friendly a failure a nu kette tendam ungaloda cheap aana idean pooriyutu
fine.

oh really?

u dont know jenny!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hmm heerra after reading ur comments well its hard to say heera. i mean even for a gal if its ok for her if she fails in love she can wait n find a better person. But i agree wit u heera that this socieety never allows sum priority to a gal as it does to a guy. Even women are against that idea so nuthin can b done against it. But i believe i strongly believe a gal can say her love to a guy first, if the guy is not worth it she can break up wit him n if possible she can find a better guy. BUT it shudnt b like every month event n it applies to guyz too.. Wat ya think?

u r right praveena

just short n sweett heera

Heera.. U mean no autograph story for girls...?

U all are gr8 huhhh? U shud be kidding..

U kno wat..? My opinion, the Autograph story would be even more better if the director would have chosen to play with a Heroine with 3 r 4 X- boyfriends...?

Do u live in a remote place in Africa.. or 1600's..? so what are u talking about..?
Girls treat love bad than what boys we do.... Dont tell us about a village story.... what society u r talking about?

Do u mean no girls are in love..? do they marry whom they love..? r they dont love other guy if they broke up with the prevoius one..? may be one or two in hundred.. the rest..?

hehe, enna saravana sollira??? lolz

lolz jenny u knw wat he means.. Karthik well as u said gals dunt get married to who they love not bcuz they dunt like them but cuz of their family pressure. Well nowadays gals tend to b more rebellious n revolutionary so yea tey r gettin bad.. Lolzz bad but truee.. But still sum gals r true n loyal to their love..

So are we.. still some boys are true n loyal to our love.. Praveena..

ur true saravana, huh ??? I dont think so mate!!!



Hehehe

Just kidding da

Hey Jenny,

Guys are loyal too.. Did u c the movie Manmathan.. Thats for girls.....?

hey karthick
there's a limit pa
u said y don't the director play the story with 1 girl & 3 or 4 guys in autograph.
for the real autograph, the film runs more than 100 days in each theatres, so many awards etc
but if the director directed the film with ur idea
the society won't accept it even it's not a real story.
and don't ever rate girls really cheap.
and praveena, u r 100% right
a girl get married with a man and give up her love, it's maybe only becoz of her family.

Heera..

There is no limits when is comes to an argument..

When u can rate us cheap.. Y cant v?

True.. the movie with real autograph (Men) went for 100 days..

What about "Manmathan".. was it a flop in ur village..? its for girls who flirt.. if there are no such girls in reality how the movie was such a good hit..? even girls accepted the movie na..?

If the director had this idea of makin the film with a girls autograph the film would have crossed 365 days..

Dai Saravana,

That film was so rubbish!!! Every single bit of it

It didnt seem to be a real story....

It was like a tale

I hate that movie, every single bit in it

Sop, dont qoute it with this movie

Jenny loose.. I was answering it to heera.. I saw lot of gurls in theatre when I was in India.. Seri adjust the movie this time.. I m talking about the success of the movie.. tale r watever atha vidu...

success aa?? That movie??? huh, no chance!!!

Do I need to prove that jenny..?

autogrph is in every men & every
but manmathan.....
u know the girls like them are are a shame 4 girls espeacially indian girlz
now i just dont what to argue with u my brother
i m sure u wont change ur idea, hat's not my prob its ur opinion thats all
but one day u will be ok with me & understand the social problem
that's all

Seri ithoda fight mudichukalam.. U go ur way.. I ill take mine..

I m not here to reform u.. its for entertainment so lets take it that way.. the problem is not worth fighting...its worth thinking may be experiencing...


Sorry Sis..

no sorry no 10x between friends okaya anna
seri seri
pacha kodi kaati pom
namma fight panni enna piroyajanam??

lolzzz ivlo chappaiya fite ends here.. Lolz kiddin. I didnt liek manmadhan its yucky n ill

enna pandratu praveena
karthick kukku enna la pooriya vaikka moodila
ataan
green signal

lolz heeraa. naan romba expect pannen. hmm paravallai.

hehe lolz gurlz

I already told u Sarvana, that film is just absoltuly off the scale and I was right coz heera and praveena didnt like it as well. Its only u who likes that film!!!

lolz jen the movie was like too much..... karthik sorry dude

yesh, it was a too much. That movie didnt seem true and real coz ppl were saying that a lady is equal to God and all that stuff and suddenly a movie comes up like manmadhan

I can wake u girls if u were sleeping....! I cant do that if u pretend to do so....

If I m the only person y the hell is that movie going for 200 days girls....? I was In India last year n had seen myself....

seri seri da

Different ppl, different opinions

So, leave it

Chill Machi

Cool Down Saravana

lolzzzz saravann as jen said chillda machi lolzz well no doubt da movie was sucess but all we r sayin is tat the movie made gals look like cheap 3rd rate. tats it

100% right Praveena

i agree too praveena

n there u go.. k karthik. need pepsi to cool off? lolzzz

The movie doesnt tell all girls are 3rd rated.. but still there are girls like that in reality too... I want a Coffee not a pepsi...May be u girls go for a Pepsi..

lolzzz ok karthik there r gals like that i totally agree wit it. but the story msotly has 90% of gals as that.... only the heroine was good otehr than that all da gals r bad// tats wat we meant. other than that i knw there r soo many gals like that n i do see them. ok now u want coffee? wat coffeee instant or brewed?? i like pepsi thnx for lettin me have it

I would like to have brewed.. Whatever Praveena!!! dont worry about the movie..

ya rite thoda go make ur own coffee

MACHI NI ANUBAIKALADU NINAIKIREN

I hate this websie.

well guest if u dunt like u can always leaveee. did sum1 ask u to stay??? try to have site up like this first. n then say any comment u wanna make... u guys r pathetic losersss get a life guest ok?

Lolz Praveenaaaa !!! hey guest ithe unekek theveyya!!!!! Yen pa nee un manathai wangikereeeee!!!!! Stupid fellowz!!!! Get a life dude!!!!!

lolz neshh these guys seriously dunth ave lives but criticize abt others work but they wud neva accomplish sumthin.. lolzzzz neshhh enna nakkal pannureya? do u knw where jen went? is she havin exams?? hmmm i think u and i are like ruling this lovers corner.... it used to b me and jen.. lolz now its u and i..... in few weeks i mite b off cuz i have exams comin up

Well Life is also like da Praave!!!!! Nothing is predictable!!!! Perhapz when u were away i and Jenny might rule thiz corner or maybe 3 of also wont be here!!!! Newayz best if luck in ya examz gal!!!!!!! No matter what ur are doing great in this forum Praveena!!!! Ur rockin Ma!!!! Opzzzzzzzz i am not suppose to lie too much about u!!!!!LOlzzzzz (Just Kiddin Kayz)

hmm ennna u r tlkain tooo much philosophyy nesh?? ennna aachu? lolzzz hmmmm nakkalla?? well i am doin better job in here neee romba nakal vidathee ok??ok where is ur posting c'mon we wanna see ur love postingg??